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Post by Anandrine on Sept 18, 2016 13:17:17 GMT -5
alright the title is a bit of an exaggeration, but tell all here! what's your secret kink (in the broadest sense of the word), what's an unusual instant turn-off for you, what are you curious about that other folks can share about, etc!
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Post by lindy on Sept 18, 2016 19:38:14 GMT -5
@ anyone who has used a fancy (like, retails >$100) vibrator, is it markedly different from cheap vibrators/worth the money?
b/c vibrators (retail <$50) don't do much for me and ppl keep telling me I should use a better one, but I remain unconvinced.
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Post by Anandrine on Sept 18, 2016 19:59:31 GMT -5
@ anyone who has used a fancy (like, retails >$100) vibrator, is it markedly different from cheap vibrators/worth the money? b/c vibrators (retail <$50) don't do much for me and ppl keep telling me I should use a better one, but I remain unconvinced. i can't remember how much our nicer one cost but it was over $50 at least. i think you're going to see two main differences: (1) texture/shapes and (2) vibration quality/options. (1) ime the cheaper vibrators tend to just be your average plasticky/TPE material, and are often just a straight shape. higher quality pricier vibrators, on the other hand, tend to use materials like velvety silicone (which besides feeling nicer, is also safer), and often have more curved shapes. that feels waaay nicer regardless of which way you're using it (internally or externally). (2) pricier vibrators will also tend to have more vibration options, and smoother vibration overall. the cheap ones i've had have tended to come with a couple settings, and all i would describe as kind of choppy? the fancier vibrator only has one kind of vibration, but it's an extremely smooth buzz that has a wide range of intensity options. so, yeah, there are differences for sure, and if you're not totally turned off them it would be worth trying a more expensive one. the brand LELO is supposedly the best of the best if you can find a good sale! but it's also possible you're just not into them. i like vibrators but i never understood women who get evangelical about them lol... they're probably all straight. |
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Post by madecrooked on Sept 18, 2016 19:59:37 GMT -5
@ anyone who has used a fancy (like, retails >$100) vibrator, is it markedly different from cheap vibrators/worth the money? b/c vibrators (retail <$50) don't do much for me and ppl keep telling me I should use a better one, but I remain unconvinced. we just got our first pricey vibrator, and it's made a difference for my fiancee, who has previously enjoyed cheaper vibes, but not for me. no vibrator has ever done anything for me, so i guess my advice would be, it depends on how much is not much. it does lit nothing for me, so powering up or w/e doesn't improve it, but if it does a lil something and you think there's some improvement that could make it better, it might be worth a try??? |
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Post by lindy on Sept 20, 2016 10:05:35 GMT -5
@ anyone who has used a fancy (like, retails >$100) vibrator, is it markedly different from cheap vibrators/worth the money? b/c vibrators (retail <$50) don't do much for me and ppl keep telling me I should use a better one, but I remain unconvinced. we just got our first pricey vibrator, and it's made a difference for my fiancee, who has previously enjoyed cheaper vibes, but not for me. no vibrator has ever done anything for me, so i guess my advice would be, it depends on how much is not much. it does lit nothing for me, so powering up or w/e doesn't improve it, but if it does a lil something and you think there's some improvement that could make it better, it might be worth a try??? thanks, you answer helped a lot. whenever i've tried to use a vibrator, i couldn't stop thinking, "i could just be doing this manually right now," so i'm guessing an upgrade wouldn't make a whole lot of difference. |
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Post by Anandrine on Sept 20, 2016 20:17:59 GMT -5
ok not really a secret of mine, but i don't understand how some women can think strapons are weird but are into fisting  |
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Post by Deleted on Sept 20, 2016 23:53:59 GMT -5
ok not really a secret of mine, but i don't understand how some women can think strapons are weird but are into fisting What really gets me is how can an entire fist fit in a vagina? Like I can't even get more than one finger up there (and not even that feels particlarly good), what the hell. My deepest, darkest desire is not being penetrated lol. |
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Post by futchdyke on Sept 23, 2016 15:46:44 GMT -5
Not like a deep dark secret but apparently it's uncommon but i loooove strap-on sex my girlfriend usually isn't up for it but on the rare occasion when she is it's the hottest thing and also a great chance to actually see her face for once when I'm having sex with her lol. Also nice break for my jaw haha. It's so hot to me I feel like my brain short circuits hahaha
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Post by Anandrine on Sept 23, 2016 19:29:42 GMT -5
Not like a deep dark secret but apparently it's uncommon but i loooove strap-on sex my girlfriend usually isn't up for it but on the rare occasion when she is it's the hottest thing and also a great chance to actually see her face for once when I'm having sex with her lol. Also nice break for my jaw haha. It's so hot to me I feel like my brain short circuits hahaha real talk... same. i get some people don't like it but it's the judgy-ness that gets me!! but yes it's great and fortunately my wife likes (wearing) it too >  |
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Post by futchdyke on Sept 24, 2016 19:38:35 GMT -5
Not like a deep dark secret but apparently it's uncommon but i loooove strap-on sex my girlfriend usually isn't up for it but on the rare occasion when she is it's the hottest thing and also a great chance to actually see her face for once when I'm having sex with her lol. Also nice break for my jaw haha. It's so hot to me I feel like my brain short circuits hahaha real talk... same. i get some people don't like it but it's the judgy-ness that gets me!! but yes it's great and fortunately my wife likes (wearing) it too > The judginess!!! Tbh I get a lot of other lesbians don't enjoy it themselves but sometimes on tumblr especially even other lesbians seem to find it weird like in response to to someone saying how liking dildos=wanting dick so many are like "ughh no!!! Most lesbians dont even like that" like ok,,, my dildo/strap collection is like $200 worth of stuff (which sounds like a lot but it's just a $75 strap and a $30 and $100 dildo) and i looove them I dont use them every time but I use them often and let me say, looking at a girl's face when she's orgasming is an out of this world experience especially if you so happen to be in love with her  )) my girlfriend also likes to use them it's great lol sorry yall tmi none pf my irl lesbian friends have sex lives so here I come to talk about sex |
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Post by lindy on Sept 24, 2016 21:08:56 GMT -5
tbh i feel like a lot of the judgement about strapons/dildos comes as a reasonable reaction to the products' marketing. Obviously they're not all like this, but if you're browsing online for dildos or w/e so many of them are named something like PUSSY RIPPER XXL and that's a huge turn off. (there's this problem in so-called sex positive shops, ime!)
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Post by futchdyke on Sept 25, 2016 8:21:17 GMT -5
tbh i feel like a lot of the judgement about strapons/dildos comes as a reasonable reaction to the products' marketing. Obviously they're not all like this, but if you're browsing online for dildos or w/e so many of them are named something like PUSSY RIPPER XXL and that's a huge turn off. (there's this problem in so-called sex positive shops, ime!) A terrifyingly uncomfortable amount have ballsacks like hey guys making these the whole reason im getting this is to have sex without a dick also gross. I only buy in person online shops are always too hetero vibe-y |
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Post by Anandrine on Sept 25, 2016 11:15:27 GMT -5
tbh i feel like a lot of the judgement about strapons/dildos comes as a reasonable reaction to the products' marketing. Obviously they're not all like this, but if you're browsing online for dildos or w/e so many of them are named something like PUSSY RIPPER XXL and that's a huge turn off. (there's this problem in so-called sex positive shops, ime!) A terrifyingly uncomfortable amount have ballsacks like hey guys making these the whole reason im getting this is to have sex without a dick also gross. I only buy in person online shops are always too hetero vibe-y the BALLS and also the VEINS. SOME OF THEM ARE SO VEINY. i guess it probably helps for trans dudes using them? but omg... why. and yeah there are a couple websites i've bought from online that aren't too bad (tantus is one) but we have a local goodvibes and much prefer going there. |
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Post by lindy on Sept 25, 2016 11:47:19 GMT -5
A terrifyingly uncomfortable amount have ballsacks like hey guys making these the whole reason im getting this is to have sex without a dick also gross. I only buy in person online shops are always too hetero vibe-y the BALLS and also the VEINS. SOME OF THEM ARE SO VEINY. i guess it probably helps for trans dudes using them? but omg... why. and yeah there are a couple websites i've bought from online that aren't too bad (tantus is one) but we have a local goodvibes and much prefer going there. Likewise, I do not like even looking at the flesh-toned ones. |
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Post by Deleted on Sept 25, 2016 12:45:32 GMT -5
Since we're on the topic of dildoes/strap-ons and I've literally never seen one in person (Nobody I know has one ??), how soft are they? They always look so painfully hard, like made of hard plastic or something, or are there different materials? :'D
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